What is the meaning of just be your self?
What does it mean your not yourself?
What does it mean when you don’t like yourself?
How do you just be yourself?
You are not Mean, But just Yourself!
You are not always supposed to do what others want you to do! You are not always supposed to act normal when you are not. You are not always supposed to laugh when you don’t want to. You are not always supposed to adjust to the things uncomfortable to you. You are not always supposed to be good for the sake of pretending. You are not always supposed to dress for the eyes of the on-lookers. You are not always supposed to eat decently. You are not always supposed to be in an up mood!
It’s not that you shall behave negatively to the negative situations. It’s is simply that: Sometimes you just need to be yourself, just yourself. Sometimes you just need to stop worrying about others. You just need to relish the inner you,
the way you feel comfortable in large size trousers, the way you walk randomly on the footpath, the way you talk freely, the way you respond actually the way you feel.
Sometimes you just don’t need to stop the flow of weird thinking going on in your head. Actually, there are times when you really NEED to be what you are instead of what you want to BE! I mean you don’t need to part away from your inner self just for the reason of being accepted by the others! If they love you for your pretending, then it is not you whom they care about! It is just the person whom they want to be as they want him to be!
I certainly don’t mean to think selfish of others! But i just want to say that do express the real YOU sometimes!
Keeping anger in yourself all the time is going to make no difference to others, but it surely does to you!
Sometimes you just need to stop paying heed to the Self-created rules for yourself! Sometimes you need to give yourself a free hand! Sometimes you just need to have a moment of “Free Life” beyond the shackles of any tensions, consciousness or worries! It is simple, sometimes you just need to relax your head of all kind of RULES!!!
Giving a little time to yourself is no Crime! if you want to cry, cry. If you want to shout, shout. Do anything you want! If it is the people you are worried about that your bad mood will make you lose them! Ahh, that is not so! If they care, they won’t mind your any kind of mood! Because they are with you for what you are not for what they want you to be! Having different moods is no crime, nor even a sign of rudeness! It’s just that you are Alive!
Just don’t give yourself a tough time! You are not always supposed to control yourself! Control is good, but controlling yourself (always) will make you forget the meaning of FEELINGS! If you think that will make you mean! Then moods are not the signs of MEANNESS! They just teach you the meanings of feelings!